You’re a man who wants to lead. You want to take initiative, set direction, and be the strong presence in the relationship. But when you do… she pulls back. She accuses you of being controlling. She says, “You’re not listening. You’re just deciding for me.” So now, you’re confused. If you don’t lead — she loses attraction. But if you try to lead — she says you’re too dominant. What the hell do women really want? Here’s the truth: Women crave leadership — but not control.They desire masculine direction — but not dictatorship. This guide will help you: Understand the difference between leading vs. controlling Spot the signs of insecure…