Good Guy, No Results – The Brutal Truth About Why Being Nice Gets You Nowhere in Dating You’ve always been respectful. Patient. Generous. You were the guy who texted back fast, offered help, and never crossed a line. Yet… she still chose someone else. “Why does being a nice guy never get me the girl?” 1. The Nice Guy Trap Since childhood, you were taught to be polite, kind, and understanding. And while these traits are admirable, they don’t spark desire. Being nice ≠ being irresistible. Most “nice guys” end up confused because they believe they’ve done everything right. But attraction isn’t built on logic. It’s built on emotional polarity.…